These are starting points, not rules. Change one thing at a time and taste the result.

15 g coffee, 250 g water at 94 °C, medium-fine grind. Wet the filter, bloom with 40 g for 40 seconds, then pour in slow circles up to 250 g by 1:30. Finish around 3:00.
15 g coffee, 230 g water at 90 °C, medium grind. Stir, steep for 2 minutes, press gently over 30 seconds. Dilute with a splash of hot water if it is too strong.
30 g coffee, 500 g water at 96 °C, coarse grind. Pour, wait 4 minutes, break the crust and skim the foam, wait one more minute, then pour carefully.
Fill the base with hot water just below the valve, add coffee without tamping, medium-fine grind. Low flame, lid open. Take it off when the stream turns pale and cool the base under the tap.
18 g in, 36 to 40 g out, 27 to 32 seconds, water at 93 °C. If it runs fast and tastes sour, grind finer. If it crawls and tastes bitter, grind coarser.

If you can only upgrade one thing, make it the grinder. A burr grinder gives you particles of even size, so the water extracts them at the same rate. Blade grinders chop beans into powder and boulders, and you cannot fix that by changing the recipe.
A decent hand grinder costs around eighty euros and does very well for filter. For espresso you will want something with finer adjustment.
The moka pot has a bad reputation among coffee people, mostly from burnt, bitter cups. It does not have to be that way. Start with hot water, not cold, so the grounds do not cook while the base heats up. Keep the flame low and listen: when the pot starts to gurgle, it is done.
